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my back yard, before the snow

It is only the Tenth of Octo­ber, but this morn­ing (at almost nine thou­sand feet up) there are two inch­es of snow on the ground, and we are enveloped in a cloud. The air is misty, blue white, with every limb of every tree sleeved with brit­tle white ice. The tem­per­a­ture is hov­er­ing at thir­ty-two degrees, and it’s snow­ing, a fine drift of superfine bits that I have to look hard to see. No ques­tion: win­ter has come to my for­est. A good thing we got new snow tires yesterday. 

But how does the weath­er affect my writing? 

To be closed in makes me want to stay hov­ered over my writ­ing desk, to focus on the new plot, to think through yet again what I’m try­ing to do, to tell, to bring to life. But in fact, my cur­rent project is at an impasse. I’m stand­ing still. I’m not sure where to go. The truth is, I’m rather lost. 

So, since, it is very beau­ti­ful out there, the thought of wan­der­ing through a for­est shroud­ed in mist, is far more tempt­ing than any­thing I can write. 

Because I have a mem­o­ry of being lost. 

One day I went out for a walk in the woods, and bid my big dog, McKin­ley (an Alaskan Mala­mute) to come with me. At the time the sum­mer foliage was thick, and we dipped down into a lit­tle vale, so that I sud­den­ly could no longer see the moun­tain peaks by which I nav­i­gat­ed my walk. I real­ized I had no idea where I was. Though I knew (intel­lec­tu­al­ly) I was no more than a mile from my home, I felt a shot of pan­ic. I didn’t know where I was. I didn’t know which direc­tion was home. I was lost. 

I turned to McKin­ley. “Go home!” I told him. 

He looked at me quizzi­cal­ly, clear­ly think­ing (and puz­zled) that I was telling him I no longer want­ed his lov­ing com­pa­ny. I adjust­ed my words. “Go find home, McKin­ley,” I told him. “Go on!” 

He start­ed off, stopped, and looked back. When he saw me fol­low­ing, he went for­ward. Like the supe­ri­or being he was (rather like a par­ent lead­ing a child,) he kept going, but every few feet he paused, wagged his tail, and checked that I was still com­ing. It didn’t take long for him to lead me home. 

What does this have to do with writing?

Some­times (and it hap­pens quite often) I’m not sure how to go for­ward. And while the dilem­ma is nev­er far from my mind I’ve learned that it’s just best to relax, go for walk, and acknowl­edge that I am stuck. Then I can depend on my instincts, or bet­ter yet, my dog’s instincts, to lead me in the direc­tion I want to go. 

Read­ers often think writ­ers know where they are going. All I can say, in my case, I more often have to dis­cov­er where I’m head­ing. Wan­der­ing through winter’s white for­est can help. Doing noth­ing can achieve much.  Being lost is often the best way to get home. 

8 thoughts on “Lost”

  1. I love the idea of being “lost” in order to find your way, as some­thing pos­i­tive. Per­haps this could lit­er­al­ly sig­ni­fy the way back home, or break­ing through being tem­porar­i­ly stuck in one’s writ­ings. I like your shar­ing Avi, that it can be okay or even a nat­u­ral­ly good thing to expe­ri­ence feel­ing “lost” in cer­tain points in time. You will find your way home and feel more enriched from the process.

    Sharon O. Blumberg
    http://www.sharonoblumbergauthor.com

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  2. Thank you for this beau­ti­ful blog. I write, too, but most­ly for my grand­kids. My char­ac­ters are my com­pa­ny and they often have to show me the way home. I am keep­ing your words close at hand to read again next time I am lost.

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  3. I’m an aca­d­e­m­ic and in the process of writ­ing my sec­ond dis­ser­ta­tion chap­ter. I’m feel­ing so stuck. It’s com­fort­ing to know that even sea­soned writ­ers and pro­lif­ic authors get lost. I will try to relax and hope that I find my way again.

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  4. Ha! Me and my 13YO daugh­ter love you SO much 🙂

    We laughed at Romeo & Juli­et so hard this week­end that we lis­tened twice. “You almost finished?”

    Lost… I love that. We NEVER know where you are head­ed and you ALWAYS sur­prise us.

    I want you to see some­thing. We loved School of the Dead: “Tony…” Me and my girl are BIGTIME into slack­lin­ing and you real­ly nailed the phi­los­o­phy and mind­set in your own way. Check us out please:

    https://youtu.be/S30YziMZJnY This is Emma! She is the most accom­plished slack­lin­er in Nashville. This line is 70M and over water which makes it almost impos­si­ble. The water mov­ing caus­es ver­ti­go and real­ly makes things dif­fi­cult. She was the only one to get a send!

    And here’s her old man: https://youtu.be/hRA_9nY6UyI

    Also, she is a huge fan and did a fan fic­tion sto­ry in a cre­ative writ­ing class 20 months ago. She added a friend­ly, yet loathed and mis­un­der­stood female kingsnake named Elvi­ra to your char­ac­ters. Every­one always insult­ed her, “I’m sor­ry sir!” Elvi­ra would respond “I’m not a sssir…”

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